Here is a snapshot of the headstone of a former boyfriend of mine who used to dance with the Fort Wayne ballet. He had been having a hard time and ended up committing suicide in 1996. That event led to my decision to move away from Indiana and to start a new life in California. I took the photo at a Logansport, Indiana cemetery southwest of Fort Wayne in 2000. I had flown back to the state for the funeral of my brother-in-law and felt the urge to visit Trin’s grave site to say hello.